How to Get What You Need From a Man Without Being Needy
Before I learned what I truly NEED in a relationship, my process for choosing a man went something like this:
- Get in the same physical space with someone of the opposite sex.
- Spend more time with them.
- Have lots of positive experiences with that person.
- Attraction builds (because of the positive experiences)
- Boom! I’m in love and it’s almost too painful to get out of the relationship
Unfortunately, this selection process is how most of us choose our relationships…we’re not taught to look for someone who shares our same values, goals and basic human needs in addition to the qualities we’d like them to have.
This is why, for so many years, I kept falling in love with the wrong men for me, because at our core we were fundamentally different - we valued different things, our goals weren't aligned and we needed to receive love in a way that the other wasn't able to give. There was always something “off” and I’d be heartbroken when we couldn’t figure our sh*t out.
Have you ever had this happen to you? When you were so in love with someone, thought they were the “one” and then it turns out that they were completely wrong for you, but you could never really figure out why?
I have an AHH-mazing new video training series to help you figure out exactly why you keep attracting the wrong men and start getting you asked out by guys that will fully meet your top relationship NEEDS. It’s working really well for my tribe and I'd love to share it with you.
Who wants the video series?!
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